tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post1091510988561540543..comments2023-10-30T08:23:43.964-05:00Comments on Our life, a Jigsaw: I love you Vansh!Neerahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02908239217422161292noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post-86189905789712965312008-01-28T13:27:00.000-06:002008-01-28T13:27:00.000-06:00Hi, thanks for your registrations with IndiBlogger...Hi, thanks for your registrations with IndiBlogger. We'd love it if you pick up the <A HREF="http://www.indiblogger.in/yourbadge.php?class=big&id=indimommy" REL="nofollow">IndiMommy </A> badge for your blog. Happy blogging!Renie Ravinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14420232456417447952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post-34521558924939365692008-01-25T14:48:00.000-06:002008-01-25T14:48:00.000-06:00Preethi : Thanks! Hey we were checking out each ot...Preethi : Thanks! <BR/><BR/>Hey we were checking out each other's blog, for the first time, at almost the same time :)Neerahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02908239217422161292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post-10430723112823385072008-01-25T14:39:00.000-06:002008-01-25T14:39:00.000-06:00First time here.. and such a touching post.... I l...First time here.. and such a touching post.... I loved this "Jiya pair maar rahi thi Vansh ko. Mummy big hug karo Vansh ko"... that was soo cute!!!Preethihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10943344283863649487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post-59097730017238339902008-01-25T14:09:00.000-06:002008-01-25T14:09:00.000-06:00Everyone: Thanks for letting me know its okay! Emp...Everyone: Thanks for letting me know its okay! Empathy from like minded moms has such a balming effect.<BR/><BR/>Deepali: Thanks so much for the hug!! I need it so bad :)<BR/><BR/>nm: I find myself debating the same thing in my head - I am a mom, so I ought to be patient but then I am a human too!! Kids are wonderful at understanding that, aren't they!<BR/><BR/>pg: Absolutely!! Its these hugs which motivate me to be nice and patient again and from having a total melt down :) <BR/><BR/>Cee Kay: Thanks dear! <BR/><BR/>You know what, I have been thinking about one of your comments about feeling guilty (on I think Kiran's blog) about robotizing(?) S and now this! It is so tough, isn't it. First thinking about the rules, working hard putting them in place and then thinking "Oh amen't I being too demanding?", like you say "making them grow up faster!" <BR/><BR/>I think you, like me, need to take it easy at times and enjoy! Leave aside the guilt! whatsay!Neerahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02908239217422161292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post-44480076827830778522008-01-25T10:17:00.000-06:002008-01-25T10:17:00.000-06:00Judging from the comments above - a lot of us moms...Judging from the comments above - a lot of us moms have been in similar situations. I have been too. Such a touching post, Neera!<BR/><BR/>I used to feel guilty that my mood swings made S grow up a little faster. Do you know what I mean?Cee Kayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04337348099202456358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post-45563673502592147352008-01-25T06:18:00.000-06:002008-01-25T06:18:00.000-06:00I was very touched by the story, almost in tears. ...I was very touched by the story, almost in tears. But yes, it could have been from me. It is hard to always be calm. I feel it is almost impossible. Whenever I get angry at Rishab he wants to hug me. And he would not budge from place and cry untill I hug him. Yes, it makes me guilty too. But I think this is a motivation enough to keep trying.PGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03509732589537039753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post-67592595619310710442008-01-24T22:59:00.000-06:002008-01-24T22:59:00.000-06:00It seems like you have written out how I behave so...It seems like you have written out how I behave sometimes with Anirudh.<BR/><BR/>I can't justify what I do but at times I cannot say that I was wrong too. I just know thatI need to leran to be more patient. Thats it! Don't feel so bad. After all you are a human being too. You are a wonderful mother but then you are allowed to err too!~nmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16483363042572158612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2610509909197302230.post-16167538118125409102008-01-24T16:38:00.000-06:002008-01-24T16:38:00.000-06:00aah such a touchy one...cant help my tears...reall...aah such a touchy one...cant help my tears...really neera we get unreasonably tough with them sometimes to make them a perfect kid, but we forget perfect kid doesnt exist and so does a perfect mum...dont worry it happens with all mums m sure...we all have our bad days but sure incidents like these leave us with utter guilt.but one thing is for sure, nothing in the world can change our love for them....<BR/>love to sweet vansh...i'll leave the big hug for muma...love to jiyaMaking Memorieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05047845047994460685noreply@blogger.com